Book Review:

Fully Alive - A Biblical View of Gender that frees men and women to live beyond steroestypes

by: Dr. Larry Crabb

Female Front and Centre

Being female has always felt like a gift to me. I am really okay to put on high heels, fiddle around with complicated layers of clothing and carry a few shades of lipstick in my purse. If you asked me a few weeks ago if I was fully female I would have replied quickly and decisively that indeed I am truly feminine from my blonde high lights to my manicured red toenails!

Discovering that my identity as a fully female human has nothing to do with my external persona and everything to do with my internal reflection of God’s image blew my mind and I have not stopped talking about it to anyone who will listen.

Dr. Larry Crabb nails my issues with precision and clarity! I am only fully present in my femininity to the extent that I receive and give in the relationships God places in my path.

As I read through the compelling case that Larry makes for my gender identity, I thought about all the times that I have wanted to shut others out, turn away in retreat and wallow in insult and hurt. The challenge to live fully female is the challenge to take relationship risks.

The bottom line of this challenge is to give without expecting to get and then give some more.

I am determined to allow this truth to challenge how I engage with people.  I want to be fully female in my relationships BECAUSE I do want others to see God when they see me. The depth of my existence as a reflection of the triune God flattens me and simultaneously frees me.

I have permission from my Creator to just be me. I don’t need to pose or pretend or hold back or try to fit in. I am free to open up and let others see me. This truth makes me weep. When I get criticized or rejected in my vulnerability I need to hang onto the truth that I am being fully female in that moment and somehow and in someway somebody will see Jesus in me.

I want to truly know and be known in the lives of others because my womanhood is complete in this truth.

I just wish I knew then what I know now.

This is a book everyone should read.  As our culture dances around the gender identity issue and blurs the lines, it is refreshing to grapple with the biblical view of who I am. This book presents a compelling case for the “Who What When and How” of my femininity.

Worth Living - Absolutely!

Worth Living 

A book by Mary DeMuth

Just the title makes me smile!

WORTH LIVING…. It is a way of thinking and moving that changes what we think of as worthy. I think it should be a new verb.

“Worthliving”: (v) the act of engaging life with the truth that God created me because He thinks I’m worth it.

The struggle with worthiness is endless. Just last week a dear young girl that I am mentoring plopped down on my couch and shared her feelings of loneliness, disconnection from those who love her and her general sense of not feeling like she deserves much more.

Seems like all our technological connections, self-esteem awareness and behavioral science advancements have not improved our aptitude for feeling okay about ourselves.

Mary DeMuth shares timeless truth in a refreshing and candid way that actually causes me to pursue the quality of life that Jesus created me to have.

Worthliving is not about my circumstances for sure. Sometimes those suck wind! 

This is about how I choose to view myself, my God, my choices and the people in my life. This is about who Jesus destined me to be. It is rich, it is deep, it is sustainable, and it is full of “Other-focused” stories.

Mary, thank you for inspiring us to worthliving!

You are Already AMAZING!

A Great Study Guide by Holly Gerth

Right now I am on the Scarsdale Diet. Definitely a throwback for the 1980’s! It worked then and I am hoping it will work now!  I am turning 50 next week and all of a sudden I am feeling a bit old and creaky. Skin looks a little tired, sleep does not restore like it used to, and even after I apply make up I look like I need a make over!

When I picked up Holly Gerth’s study guide and looked at the title I was reminded of the truth that my culture wants me to forget.

I am amazing BEFORE the diet, the make up, the botox, the gym, the new shoes and the lash extensions. (not that I have Botoxed….yet!)

I live in the tension of self-care and self-critique.

God’s purpose for me comes into clear focus when my self-awareness level includes the truth that my worth is more than the sum of my contributions and attributions.

This study guide encouraged me to take a look at why I do what I do and what it is that I really need to focus on that will propel me toward the amazing truth that indeed I am already amazing.

Thank you Holly for your candid encouragement to embrace who God created me to be!

This is a great study guide for anyone struggling with insecurity issues, unrealistic demands, and over-whelming feelings of inadequacy….I think that would include all of us!

Verse 4 Your Purse: AudaciousBy Beth MooreI’ve always wondered about...

Verse 4 Your Purse: AudaciousBy Beth Moore

I’ve always wondered about...: Audacious By Beth Moore I’ve always wondered about the fire. The first time that it welled up I was 15, it was a hot and humid even...

Audacious

By Beth Moore

I’ve always wondered about the fire. The first time that it welled up I was 15, it was a hot and humid evening and the preacher at that summer camp was challenging me to step out of my row and walk down an aisle and throw a stick in the fire. It was a symbol of full surrender to Christ.

I threw the stick in the fire that evening but was as if a spark from the fire landed on me. I went home forever changed and over the years the fire has flickered and glowed and blazed and smouldered but it has never gone out.

Sometimes the fire hurts and sometimes it makes my heart beat fast and my palms get sweaty and sometimes I just get indignant and a tad belligerent and I wish I was like everyone else. Content to enjoy the pursuit of travel, lunch with friends and new shoes.  I have struggled to understand how you can participate in weekly bible study and not get charged up about what you see in the pages of scripture. I have not understood apathy, maybe because of how I am wired, but truth be told, the drive to pursue Jesus has just never gone out, its just there.

I visited the Brooklyn Tabernacle last week while in New York,  and I cried through the whole service because the Holy Spirit was there and I just did not know what to do with myself, and when I read Audacious I am reminded that I am not alone.

There are lots of us who desire more. Many who believe that the Holy Sprit still speaks to us and leads us to do the improbable.  

I am in awe of Beth’s courage to write a book about what we hardly dare to think about. I am grateful to know that with all our sophisticated technology, retinol creams and ever-changing home décor it is still

“bang on” 

“in style” 

to be

“on fire” for Jesus.

This book is a must read for every person who wants to be challenged to feel more, dream bigger and live life with the commitment of a fully engaged disciple.

It challenged me to live like Jesus is coming back a week from Tuesday at 1pm!